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Roy Petitfils is a licensed counselor, award-winning author, speaker and internationally recognized expert in understanding and raising teenagers. You can find him giving TedTalks about communication with teens and on his podcast Today's Teenager.

Religion As A Coping Resource For Teens

In this week's episode, Roy explores how the practice of religion, including elements like ritual and community, can enable teenagers to find comfort and encouragement in the ever-changing world in which they are growing up.  Roy explains how the predictability and sameness of ritual can provide a sense [...]

By |2019-03-05T20:52:57+00:00March 1st, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Religion As A Coping Resource For Teens

Communicating Vs. Connecting With Teens

In this episode of Today's Teenager, Roy explains the differences between communicating and connecting with teens. Roy suggests that when adults who work with teens or parents of teens say they want to learn to better communicate with teens, they're really seeking deeper connection. Roy offers three strategies [...]

By |2019-03-05T20:52:35+00:00February 26th, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Communicating Vs. Connecting With Teens

Engaging In Hard Conversations With Teens

  In this first episode in a series on having hard conversations with teens, Roy discusses the "anatomy" of a difficult conversation with a young person on a topic that is sensitive, timely, and/or emotionally charged. Various factors can discussing such topics even more difficult, like a history [...]

By |2019-03-05T20:51:52+00:00February 22nd, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Engaging In Hard Conversations With Teens

Summer Is An Opportunity To Connect With Teens

Summer marks the end of what is, for most parents and teens, a grueling academic year filled with a multitude of stressors like studying, school and athletic-related activities, not to mention the busy nature of work and family life. As Roy points out in this week's episode, the [...]

By |2019-03-05T20:51:10+00:00February 19th, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Summer Is An Opportunity To Connect With Teens

Helping Teens Integrate Their Compartmentalized Selves

  More and more parents today are saying their kid is one way at school but act a totally different way at home. Parents hear rave reviews from teachers about how kind, respectful and conscientious their teen is at school or in public, but parents are confused because [...]

By |2019-03-05T20:48:49+00:00February 15th, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Helping Teens Integrate Their Compartmentalized Selves

Helping Depressed Teens

  In this episode of Today's Teenager, Roy offers four tips that adults can employ in helping depressed teens. The first tip that Roy suggests is understanding that teenage depression is real and to validate that for teens. The second tip Roy recommends is that adults be patient with the [...]

By |2019-03-05T20:48:24+00:00February 12th, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Helping Depressed Teens

Youth On The Margins

  In this episode, Roy addresses the problem of youth who, for various reasons, continue to struggle with mental health issues without receiving acknowledgement or adequate care.  Roy shares the alarming statistic that the second leading cause of death among adolescents today is suicide, a result of an [...]

By |2019-03-05T20:48:11+00:00February 8th, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Youth On The Margins

Tips For Disciplining Teens

In this first of a series of micro episodes designed to offer quickly - digestible insight on a range of topics, Roy offers tips for effectively and compassionately disciplining teens. Roy's strategies include asking teens what they feel are appropriate disciplinary actions and making sure that correctional techniques [...]

By |2019-02-04T23:25:59+00:00February 5th, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Tips For Disciplining Teens

Social Media And Teen Mental Health

In this micro episode, Roy addresses how social media impacts the mental health of today's teenagers. Roy focuses on how social media apps like Snapchat and Instagram affect dopamine production and dependence in the brain. Roy also discusses how social media curbs proficiency in recognizing verbal and non [...]

By |2019-01-07T18:24:11+00:00February 1st, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Social Media And Teen Mental Health

Helping Teens With Anxiety

In this episode, Roy further addresses how anxiety affects young people, especially their spiritual life. Roy offers tips for helping teens who struggle with anxiety, including less technology, more social interaction with friends and family, and avoiding transferring anxiety to teens.  Roy has established Today's Teenager as a [...]

By |2019-01-07T18:23:53+00:00January 29th, 2019|Today's Teenager Podcast Episode|Comments Off on Helping Teens With Anxiety
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